I don’t know why y'all scared of having arguments, especially with people you give a fuck about.
Not every argument is toxic, leads to a screaming match or turns physical.
Disagreements happen all the time and if something bothers you, you shouldn’t sweep it under the rug.
Tbh if you can’t work through disagreements, differing opinions, and share what bothers you then you shouldn’t be with them
This is something I really need to work on. It’s really problematic that I have an anxiety attack just thinking about bringing up a problem that I have, even minor shit.
Remember that you should never argue when you’re on the phone(text/call). Wait until you’re face to face. The biggest lesson I’ve learned is that we all misinterpret things which makes everything worse. When you’re having a discussion that involves different opinions and views, also remember to keep your face & body relaxed. Body language counts in these scenarios as well.
i very much disagree about not arguing in text. for a lot of people who have trouble with confrontation, text is much easier. you have a record of what you said, you can take a moment to compose yourself before replying, and you won’t be overreacting to tone or body language. only ever arguing face to face is a really bad idea, actually.
even when you’re very emotionally involved in the issue – especially then – it’s okay to set the topic aside until you’re calmer. don’t convince yourself ‘the moment has passed, it’s too late to bring that up.’ it’s honestly better to talk about it when it’s not so urgent.
never fight in the car. arguing is ok, if you’re the type who can debate and banter and not get super upset. but a fight in the car is a really really bad idea, because you’re both trapped, and nobody can walk away and cool off.
don’t imply, and don’t infer. say exactly what you mean, and tell your partner that you expect the same from them. so much of the badness of relationship fights comes from assuming each other’s motives and meanings instead of listening to what’s actually being said.
Obviously, while he’s distracted with his own monologue, you can throw everything you have at him and kill him. But the fastest, most surefire way to do the job is with an item most players ignore: the torch. It’s nothing but a simple torch Snake used earlier to find his way out of a cave, but if you jam it up The Fear’s ass, he goes up like a 1977 Ford Pinto.
Technically, the torch can burn any of Snake’s enemies, but most of them are smart enough to go somewhere else when you start poking them with flaming sticks. The programmers either forgot or didn’t bother to teach this trick to The Fear. He has no idea how to react to a colon-first fireball attack, so he will stand there and let the fire devour him. Because what maniac game developer could have foreseen players doing anything this strange?
Any player who spent an hour pumping bullets into The Fear in a straight gunfight knows he’s absurdly tough, so it takes forever for the fire to finish him off. Luckily, he will never figure out what’s going on, so sit back, relax, and enjoy the smell of roasting butthole.
I fucking hate it when you’re in such a fantastically giddy mood and then you see one simple little thing that makes you think, “oh” and then you just get this empty feeling in your chest and you get nauseous and the world just crumbles and you want to just lay under a blanket and close your eyes and fall asleep and never wake up.
From what my therapist told me, this happens because our emotions aren’t really on the ‘opposite’ ends like we tend to think of it. Happiness is not ‘up’ and sadness is not ‘down’-. In a way they’re actually right ‘next’ to each other.
If you’re super happy, it can turn into super sad very easily, because your emotions are already highly elevated and it’s only a very minor shift as far as your brain is concerned.
Knowing this can help you fight it, and it can help you be more aware of what’s going on while you’re happy and help avoid shifting towards misery.
I used to always wonder why it seemed like my happy days ‘couldn’t last’ or that bad things would ‘always’ happen when I was happy. It’s not that happiness is doomed to fail, it’s that emotions are volatile. I hope that helps people who experience this too- when you understand what’s going on more it’s easier to manage.
dragon age player characters should be allowed to swim
like if mr. skyrim can swim while wearing full armor made out of rocks or whatever, my inquisitor dressed in light armor should be allowed to swim too instead of dying instantly if water level comes above his knees
Mr. Skyrim,,,,,,
yeah, him. mr. skyrim, the guy who screams at dragons and eats bees.
